Do you have to go to University? What other options are out there?
I've been thinking a lot recently about how much pressure there was in my last two years of school, especially at this time in my last year, to get everything ready to go to University. It was time to nail that perfect personal statement (the one that makes you seem like the best student, with top grades, three hundred hobbies and you-know, not full of yourself), finalise my uni choices and knuckle down to get the grades I needed. And I mean NEEDED because failure meant that I'd fall into a pit with no future, right?!
It's really been bothering me that my school didn't tell me about any other options that were out there for me. I mean, I get it, they want to look good in league tables etc etc, but the only way I was getting any other options out of them was if I failed. Then they'd discuss them with me. But that's a little too late.
That sucks. University isn't for everyone and so many people feel pressured into moving away from home to study a subject because they've not been told what else the world has to offer. There's so many people out there who have left halfway through, or whose mental health has taken a turn for the worse because they don't enjoy it. And that's not meant to be a 'normal' part of uni. If you hate the lifestyle, and you just want to get out, then it's probably time to think about whether you really want to get this degree, or whether you did it because that's what was expected of you.
A lot of us didn't go to uni because of that, granted. The main factor is the whole 'getting a job' thang. I, and a whole bunch of my peers, were made to believe that going to uni = getting a degree = getting a job = earning good money = happiness. But things really don't go that smoothly. Did you know that only 60% of English Lit graduates are employed? And the top of the list for their employment sector is in bar and retail work? Yup (check out the Graduate Prospects website for info about this and other subjects *this isn't a weird #spon, just where I got my info from*).
As a lit graduate I was employed in bar work for the most of the first two years of my post-uni working life. After applying for what felt like hundreds of publishing jobs and not getting anywhere because I had no experience *rolls eyes* I got demoralised, gave up and went into bar work. Which I LOVE.
Going into bar work helped me build up so many interpersonal skills that uni hadn't ever drawn out of me. I learnt that I was good at talking to people and could hold my own in a dispute. My realisation that university hadn't *really* helped me that much came when a 20-year-old colleague of mine bought her first house. I mean, it's rare, but she'd avoided uni, worked a zillion hours, had a buttload of experience behind her and now a house to boot.
So, let's talk options. There are SO MANY things you can do if you don't want to go to uni. If your school/college is neglecting to tell you this it doesn't make the options any less valid.
Get an apprenticeship. They get such a bad name, but you can do a vocational course in a subject you love. You're learning and earning a little bit of cash on the side. Yes, the wages for apprentices are pretty dire, but they're a lot better than losing £9000 a year to learn. It's much less of a commitment to try out something you think you might like to learn.
Do an open university course. Ya see how I worded everything about 'going to university'? Sneaky, I know. An OU course gives you the opportunity to study part time from home whilst gaining experience working. The fees are a lot lower and you can do it wherever you want; you don't have to move away.
Go travelling. Aka the gap yah. I was warned off this because 'once you miss out on a year, you won't want to go to uni at all'. Which now seems like the most pointless reason because you've spent the year evaluating your life, moved away from pressure and realised that uni might not be for you? Save up during sixth form, see the sights and recognise exactly what you want from life. Maybe it's uni, maybe it's not. Let yourself have that time to work things out.
Journey into the working world. Although, yes, uni *can* help you along the way to better jobs, so can experience. Try out different jobs in different sectors until you find the one that works for you. Volunteering or doing short internships can help you realise what you enjoy/don't enjoy about certain jobs. There's always the option for study at a later date if you need it.
I know the list isn't the most expansive in the world, but it's something to work with (I hope). Just remember that university isn't the be all and end all. There are other options out there, and they might just work better for you.
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Oh my word I don't think I've ever related to a post so much around university and choices! I went to uni because I felt pressured and like you said, I had no idea how to make it on my own with my art so I thought I might as well go along with what everyone was telling me. My mental health plummeted when I started uni because I didn't fit in, didn't enjoy it, felt it was a complete waste of time and money so I quit after my foundation year. A few years later I had the confidence to start my own business and freelance but I could have done this to begin with…no one told me it was an option though :'( great post Steph, thank you for spreading the awareness around university and our options! x x
ReplyDeleteEllis // www.elliswoolley.co.uk
I'm absolutely loving your shop at the moment - I'm so glad you found the confidence to start your business and go freelance! Which reminds me, I've been meaning to place a Christmassy order ...
DeleteSteph - www.nourishmeblog.co.uk
My older sister majored in English Lit and went to school for 5 years until she graduated. What does she do now? Decorate cakes at a grocery store. She enjoys it which is all that matters. I had a crappy school experience which is why I didn't bother going to university. However, I always get judged by people when I tell them I'm not in school but I am a high believer that going to school doesn't equal success or happiness. I doesn't mean I've stopped learning either. I love learning new things I mean I'm learning Korean all on my own. ♥
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It sounds like a really fab job, but it's hard to deal with the pressure of having a degree and using it. You're doing what makes you happy, which is all that matters <3
DeleteSteph x
I think this is such a brilliant post. I never went to uni but I do feel like there is a certain pressure to go. I left school, did a year long course at a college whilst working part-time at Woolworths, then I undertook an apprenticeship. Yes apprenticeships don't pay much BUT the experience and what you learn from it is brilliant, not to mention how it led me into a permanent job with the same employer. So what started out as me thinking it was going to be just a year long apprenticeship, turned into me being there for 5 and a half years! So I agree that it's definitely worth looking into other opportunities as well as uni.
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Thank you so much. I think apprenticeships are really underrated - getting experience is do worth it!
DeleteSteph x
I went from sixth form straight into the working world and loved it. I don't think I'd change my choice if I could go back in time, but I would love to do a gap year anyway - they look amazing! Lovely post :)
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I know so many people that have done this and not regretted it too! If it's what you want to do then you should go for it
DeleteSteph x
I always wanted to go to university - I'd wanted to go from the age of 14 and I went at the age of 19. I saw it as an opportunity for personal development and a great way to further myself academically.
ReplyDeleteBut when I was in 6th form there was a lot of pressure to go, and it was always claimed that if you good a degree you'd get a good job and a good lifestyle, but if you didn't go to university you'd not be successful and you'd end up in a dead end job. Looking back now, I think that's such poor advice and it was clear that the teachers at school believed that university was the 'best' and the 'only' option. My school was one of the top schools in the borough and the teachers and heads cared so much about the reputation, so it was clear that there was so much pressure for everyone to go to university because it would improve the school's statistics.
I graduated in July 2016 and since then I've worked, temped and intern. Now I freelance and I'm looking for a part-time role as a copywriter. I know from my experience - and from what I was told by careers advisers at university - that a degree is certainly not a guarantee for a job or career success. Most employers care more about experience anyway.
Chichi
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I really think it's poor advice too - I got told the same thing about going to uni. It's so frustrating that advisors at schools don't care enough about students' welfares to show them the bigger picture
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